Freedom

In love, no one can harm anyone else;

we are each of us responsible for our own feelings

and cannot blame someone else for what we feel.

It hurt when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with.

Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone,

because no one owns anyone.

That is the true experience of freedom:

having the most important thing in the world without owning it.
— Paulo Coelho